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You matter to me. In a way I cannot explain, you matter to me. And you, you are a marvel... you and all the parts of you. It s not the kind of thing you normally write to a complete stranger. But after graduating from college and moving to New York City, Hannah Brencher was feeling anxious and depressed. She found herself not wanting to be around other people and just really unravelling . Then she started writing love letters to strangers and leaving them all over the city. The first letter she left on a train simply addressed: If you find this letter then it s for you. Since then she has left letters in libraries and cafes,[url=http://www.ugg-boots-sale.org]ugg outlet[/url], and even hidden them around the United Nations building. Continue reading the main story To whoever finds this letter You and I don t know one another. We may never sit and laugh over cups of coffee. We may never dance in the same circles or yawn together by the midnight hour. None of that really matters to me. It is so small and meaningless to the things I wish you would know on a daily basis: that you are lovely. That you are worthy. That those hands of yours were made for mighty, mighty things. You probably think I am crazy. You are probably sitting here with this letter in your hands thinking, you cannot know that... you don t know me... you don t know a stitch of me. Yes, you re right. But I know all the things I thought I never deserved. I know how very hard it once was to love myself and value myself and even find myself worth the reflection in the mirror. And so I know I am not alone in needing a boost some days,[url=http://www.ugg-boots-sale.org]uggs[/url], in needing to know that I matter to someone somewhere. You matter to me. In a way I cannot explain, you matter to me. And you, you are a marvel... you and all the parts of you. Love, A girl just trying to find her way What I noticed was that my sadness and loneliness got backburnered, she told the BBC. I found something that allowed me to take the focus off of myself. Unexpected kindness Hannah and her More Love Letters campaign are part of a growing number of organisations shouting about the beneficial effects of random acts of kindness for givers as well as receivers. It might sound a bit like new-age nonsense to some people,[url=http://www.ugg-boots-sale.org]cheap uggs[/url], but new research suggests being kind might actually be good for your mental health. A study published in the journal Emotion reports that performing acts of kindness may help people with social anxiety to feel more positive. Dr Lynn Alden and Dr Jennifer Trew, from the University of British Columbia, asked volunteers with high levels of social anxiety to commit multiple acts of kindness on two days a week over a four-week period. Sometimes people would give a small gift to somebody, or picking somebody up from work, visiting sick people,[url=http://www.ugg-boots-sale.org]cheap ugg[/url], thanking a bus driver. They were actually fairly small acts, explained Dr Alden. They were small acts perhaps, but ones which had a much bigger impact. Challenging beliefs More standard treatment for social anxiety disorder is cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) adapted specifically for people who fear they will do or say something embarrassing in a social situation. Continue reading the main story Social anxiety disorder It is the most common of the anxiety disorders. It is more common in women than men and often begins in adolescence. People fear they will do or say something embarrassing in a social situation and avoid those situations as a result. Physical symptoms include signs of anxiety such as blushing, sweating, shaking, heart pounding, muscle tension and upset stomach. As part of this therapy patients are encouraged to face their fears about social contact, by putting themselves into a situation they would normally avoid or initiating conversation with new people. In Dr Alden s experiment a comparison group of anxious volunteers were asked to perform small belief-challenging tasks similar to these therapeutic ones. Just like the kind acts group, this group were also increasing their levels of social contact, engaging in unfamiliar behaviour, and paying attention to others responses; all things which have been suggested to be important components in overcoming social anxiety. At the end of the four weeks, participants in the kind acts group avoided social situations less and also reported increased relationship satisfaction. Performing kind acts appeared to have a bigger effect than CBT-like behaviour tasks. Continue reading the main story The kindness offensive A London-based initiative called the Kindness Offensive have been organising give-away events and encouraging kind acts since 2008. They hold the world record for the largest ever random act of kindness for distributing 39 tonnes of goods in one day. It s practically impossible to do an act of kindness without feeling good about yourself, said the aptly named David Goodfellow, one of the founding members of the group. If you can make someone s day a little bit better it will actually make your day a little bit better. Dr Nick Grey, consultant clinical psychologist and clinic director at the Centre for Anxiety Disorders and Trauma in London, was initially wary of the idea that performing kind acts might have therapeutic value for patients with anxiety disorders. I hadn t seen the paper and I was sceptical from the title to be honest. But it s a good paper and comes from a well-respected team. I don t think that s ever going to be a therapy in and of itself, but it could well be the kind of activity that could be integrated as part of a broader treatment. Dr Alden suggests that acts of kindness might be an initial step in a longer therapeutic pathway. Engaging in kind acts may help the person to get out and encounter other people and then we can use other techniques to help the person change their beliefs about themselves. But she urges caution about performing acts of kindness chosen by someone else or just to impress others. I think it has be done in such a way that the individual has a sense of autonomy. They are performing the act because they want to and not because it s required by the group. A pledge by food manufacturers to cut saturated fat levels is a drop in the ocean in the fight against obesity, a top public health expert says.
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